Marriage, life

Marriage drastically changes a girl’s life. I got married two months ago and now I can understand how difficult it is for someone to leave behind all her relations and priorities and adjust in a new world. Though I am very lucky to have very kind in-laws, I miss my parents, my brother a lot and lot and lot. I and bro used to fight a lot and my lovely mom was telling us that we would really miss each other a lot after my marriage and naughty bro was like: “me???? Missing jija???? (he used to call me jija) impossible”. And now look at us, both of us are dying to meet each-other. Miss you so much bro!!!

I am missing my freedom actually which I had at my home, because by some or the other means you have to be in discipline at your in-laws home. Remembering the song from the movie ‘mausam’:

Singer: Bhupinder, Lata Mangeshkar
Music Dir: Madan Mohan
Lyricist: Gulzar

Dil dhoondta hai phir wohi fursat ke raat din
baithe rahe tasavvur-e-jaana kiye hue
dil dhoondta hai phir wohi fursat ke raat din.....

Jaadon ki narm dhoop aur aangan mein let kar
ankkhon pe khinchkar tere aanchal ke saaye ko
aundhe pade rahe kabhi karavat liye hue
dil dhoondta hai phir wohi fursat ke raat din.....

Ya garamiyon ki raat jo puravaiyan chalen
thandi safed chaadaron pe jaagen der tak
taaron ko dekhate rahen chhat par pade hue
dil dhoondta hai phir wohi fursat ke raat din.....

Barfili sardiyon mein kisi bhi pahad par
vaadi mein guunjti hui khaamoshiyaan sune
ankkhon mein bhige bhige se lamhe liye hue
dil dhoondta hai phir wohi fursat ke raat din.....