Marriage drastically changes a girl’s life. I got married two months ago and now I can understand how difficult it is for someone to leave behind all her relations and priorities and adjust in a new world. Though I am very lucky to have very kind in-laws, I miss my parents, my brother a lot and lot and lot. I and bro used to fight a lot and my lovely mom was telling us that we would really miss each other a lot after my marriage and naughty bro was like: “me???? Missing jija???? (he used to call me jija) impossible”. And now look at us, both of us are dying to meet each-other. Miss you so much bro!!!
I am missing my freedom actually which I had at my home, because by some or the other means you have to be in discipline at your in-laws home. Remembering the song from the movie ‘mausam’:
Singer: Bhupinder, Lata Mangeshkar
Music Dir: Madan Mohan
Lyricist: Gulzar
Dil dhoondta hai phir wohi fursat ke raat din
baithe rahe tasavvur-e-jaana kiye hue
dil dhoondta hai phir wohi fursat ke raat din.....
Jaadon ki narm dhoop aur aangan mein let kar
ankkhon pe khinchkar tere aanchal ke saaye ko
aundhe pade rahe kabhi karavat liye hue
dil dhoondta hai phir wohi fursat ke raat din.....
Ya garamiyon ki raat jo puravaiyan chalen
thandi safed chaadaron pe jaagen der tak
taaron ko dekhate rahen chhat par pade hue
dil dhoondta hai phir wohi fursat ke raat din.....
Barfili sardiyon mein kisi bhi pahad par
vaadi mein guunjti hui khaamoshiyaan sune
ankkhon mein bhige bhige se lamhe liye hue
dil dhoondta hai phir wohi fursat ke raat din.....
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i know exactly what u r feeling..even though marriage brings new people in our lives, new happinesses...at the same time u do miss the things and people u have always known and grown up with...i'm sure ur brother also must be missing those small innocent fights that u guys had...but this is life girl...u get something..u lose something...! the key is to enjoy what u have today...
thanks buddy for the words...
i think at present the typical libran balance of my mind is lost...
may be the pain would heal with time...
thanks for dropping in!!!
Am I glad to see you back to the blogging world!! :)
And sweetie, eveybody passes through the same phase.. i mean every girl and then we get used to it! Don't worry, you will be fine! absolutely!! :)
And in any case, you know where to find me if you need me!!
Take care and write more often!!
Lots of love to both of you!! :)
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